I mean, what else can I say [well, a whole lot,actually.but you know what I mean.]
It seems to me that around this time of year, everyone is in such a rush to be in a freakin relationship. And don't make that face at me either. I'm guilty of it too. but that doesn't make it smart. I understand there are all kinds of parties and events and holidays that seem like they'd be so much more fun if you had a boyfriend to take to all of them and introduce. But it's not like the little black dress or the perfect cardigan of the season. A boyfriend isn't a damn accessory. Yeah, its looking like the boyfriend is way better to take to the haunted house, but guess what? Your girls can be just as fun. Boyfriends are a commitment. Even when you both agree that you arent looking for that kind of commitment, you are commiting to no commitment. DUMB! You are also commiting to 1] not scoping out all the other eye candy at parties[on the rare occasion your homegirls can even get you out of the house anymore.] 2] the random argument over something dumb, like the fact that your group presentation means that you are in a group that has (GASP!) boys in it! And I mean, now that you have a boyfriend, you cant possibly act like other guys exist, even if they dress like Steve Urkel and act like a girl.
And that is just the beginning!! I'm sure yo can go on and on about all of the things that come with a relationship! So I don't have to! But truly, settling is so not cool. A boyfriend shouldn't invove planned attack and action. It should come from a comfortable friendship you already had, or maybe from some chance meeting with a potential Mr.Right. It's not about the search. And I hate when I get to feeling so lonely that I want to go hunt for a new guy. I want to kick myself in the behind because I know better!! There are definitely some LOVELY perks involved. But I'd rather concentrate on the task of waiting for the challenge I have with someone that I KNOW I really want. And believe me, I may just be waiting forever....but that's because my heart tells me I should.
Until then....I'm trying to cope with this single life people rave about. And I think its cute how the first hussy to "looooooooooooooooove being single" happens to be the one who JUST barely got out of a relationship anyways. And you know I'm right!
Til Next Time! Smooches! XOXO
It seems to me that around this time of year, everyone is in such a rush to be in a freakin relationship. And don't make that face at me either. I'm guilty of it too. but that doesn't make it smart. I understand there are all kinds of parties and events and holidays that seem like they'd be so much more fun if you had a boyfriend to take to all of them and introduce. But it's not like the little black dress or the perfect cardigan of the season. A boyfriend isn't a damn accessory. Yeah, its looking like the boyfriend is way better to take to the haunted house, but guess what? Your girls can be just as fun. Boyfriends are a commitment. Even when you both agree that you arent looking for that kind of commitment, you are commiting to no commitment. DUMB! You are also commiting to 1] not scoping out all the other eye candy at parties[on the rare occasion your homegirls can even get you out of the house anymore.] 2] the random argument over something dumb, like the fact that your group presentation means that you are in a group that has (GASP!) boys in it! And I mean, now that you have a boyfriend, you cant possibly act like other guys exist, even if they dress like Steve Urkel and act like a girl.
And that is just the beginning!! I'm sure yo can go on and on about all of the things that come with a relationship! So I don't have to! But truly, settling is so not cool. A boyfriend shouldn't invove planned attack and action. It should come from a comfortable friendship you already had, or maybe from some chance meeting with a potential Mr.Right. It's not about the search. And I hate when I get to feeling so lonely that I want to go hunt for a new guy. I want to kick myself in the behind because I know better!! There are definitely some LOVELY perks involved. But I'd rather concentrate on the task of waiting for the challenge I have with someone that I KNOW I really want. And believe me, I may just be waiting forever....but that's because my heart tells me I should.
Until then....I'm trying to cope with this single life people rave about. And I think its cute how the first hussy to "looooooooooooooooove being single" happens to be the one who JUST barely got out of a relationship anyways. And you know I'm right!
Til Next Time! Smooches! XOXO
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